Spiritual Tips To Have A Proper Relationship

Dear Chrisalis and Melodie:

My love life seems to be in a bit of a mess. I meet guys but I can't seem to hold onto a proper relationship right now. Can you tell me why? Lana*

From Chrisalis:

Hi Lana. Take heart that things will improve for you and even though they may take a few months to do so you will grow from this experience. Patience really is a virtue. Here are the cards I pulled for you:



Your first card is the 4 swords which means you are doubting yourself and I would say you are actually not doubting yourself as much as you think you are. 4 swords is not a strong doubting card. It’s more like little worries which can turn into larger ones if you let them. The clue there is “if you let them.” The Strength card as the next card indicates that you are strong and you are not chasing after anyone as you are keeping a lot of what you are thinking to yourself, which is pretty amazing as you also had the Queen of Wands right next to the Strength card.

The Queen of Wands is not known for her patience or putting up with people around her or situations that are unfair. She usually speaks her mind. It may be you are channelling your energy into work as 9 Pentacles is your last card and this is a fantastic card for work. Focus on work for the next few months and I'm sure things will improve and change for you. You may even get a promotion or pay rise without trying to as you have a lot of positive changes coming your way.

Best wishes, and feel free to contact me for a live session if you’d like a more detailed reading.

Chrisalis

From Melodie:

Hi Lana, I took a quick look at your birth chart, and let me just say that there’s a lot more information that can be attained from the chart than we can get into here. I appreciate your including your birth data (which I have omitted here to protect your privacy). Here’s your chart:



What stands out immediately though is a bit of a disconnect between your relationship planets (Venus and Mars). This tells me that you’re going to run into some problems reconciling your need for self-expression with your tendency to attract partners who can be insecure and at times overly protective.

Your Venus in Leo is romantic and flirtatious and loves to take center stage. But your Mars in Cancer will bring out the nurturing and protective quality in your partners, who may feel threatened by all the extra attention you’re getting.

Fortunately, that Venus makes a beautiful aspect to your Libra Moon, which is nothing if not fair. Becoming more conscious of your own role in testing relationship waters can go a long ways toward attracting the love you deserve.

All the best, Melodie



*not her real name